God put everything we need in place before He created us. In the beginning, we were created to tend a garden, to conceive and raise children, and to walk with God.
In everything we have to do on earth, the challenge is to find what is best, and to nurture that.
Gardening, raising children, walking with God — the way to be most successful in life on earth is the same for all three.
Find what is beautiful, and nurture it. It is perfectly fine to move things around — just do so carefully, and at the proper time for each thing. Keep the soil well-fed and aerated. Pull the weeds when the weeds are young and tender and when the soil around them is soft. (They come out easily then.) Enjoy, celebrate, and praise.
That’s life in a nutshell.